Tuesday, March 29, 2022

Review 12 on Ven. Master Xue Wu’s《認識佛教》英文字幕 美國英語口音20220302 Live Translation by Dylan Lee 《How good the Pure Land is and how there's no death, no aging, no illness. How good that place is! That's the only place where we can be together forever!》

 


Today, I would like to get into the topic of how we fulfill our filial duty to our parents.


In the previous sessions

we learned how to be

a decent human being


because

that is the starting point

for our Buddhist cultivation.


Shakyamuni Buddha

gave Dharma talks for 49 years.


Where do we start

among these vast teachings?

Buddha told us to start with Filial Piety.


There's no beating around

the bush about this.

This is the foundation.


When he said that it's actually very wise

because it brings out all the afflictions,

all the troubles,


bad habits

we have to the surface.


Every one of us has bad habits and

these bad habits have created

a lot of obstacles in our life.


If you want to list them out one by one,

they are too numerous.

So using Filial Piety (孝 in Chinese),


he has summarized everything

that is wrong with our current state

as ordinary beings


because if you want to

overcome your own habits,

everything, every single habit,


that happens in your life,

if you want to uproot them, resolve them,

you have to start with Filial Piety.


This is by far

the best part of

Shakyamuni Buddha’s teachings.


So we will go in depth about Filial Piety and

why Buddha started from there,

told us to start from there,


if you want to go

more deeply into Buddhism.


So why do we begin with Filial Piety?

How do we do that?

How do we do our best being filial?


If you look at modern times, this concept

of being loving and respectful towards your

parents and elders is quite strange, foreign.


Some people don’t even

know because some people,

a lot of people have this idea:


As long as I have money, I earn a lot

of money, I can support my parents

with a lot of good food and good shelter.


Let them live a luxurious, lavish life.

I think that's Filial Piety. But,

is it actually Filial Piety if we just do that?


You can't say it's not,

it's treating them well.

You're treating your own parents well,


but to be actually filial,

you cannot measure it,

it's not quantifiable.


You can't use money, how much money you

give your parents to measure how filial you

are because what about those who are poor?


Does it mean

that only the rich people can

be filial and the poor people cannot?


No. So we need to

have wisdom

in regard to these teachings.


So how do we do that?

How do we actually fulfill our

Filial responsibility towards our parents?


What kind of attitude

should we have?


This is a very important question for youth,

young people, because this idea is quite

distant so we need to remind ourselves.


Some people might say

cook good food for parents,

buy good clothes or gifts for them


and that's what we call perfecting Filial Piety,

but it's not there yet,

because anyone can do that,


there's no need to

practice or cultivate at all.


If so, anyone can,

if they earn enough money to,

just buy whatever gifts,


whatever clothes,

whatever food for their parents

and consider that Filial Piety.


If they want a TV, buy them a TV.

Is that called fulfilling your

filial responsibility?


No.

A lot of people do in this era,

if you talk to them,


I want to share with you the importance

of being filial towards your elders or

being loving and respectful to elders.


A lot of people say:

Are you out of your mind

or are you outdated?


Are you one of those people who are like statues

made from 1,000 years ago and that would

never change according to the era?


Isn't Buddhism about following the era,

adapting to the era? Why do we

stick to such outdated concepts?


What era are we in now?!

This is a view that's shared by

a lot of people nowadays.


Some even say

Buddhism itself is outdated,

cannot follow, adapt to the time, to that era.


Some even told me: Master,

do you know what era this is?!

It's the era of looking forward to wealth!


Without money, without wealth,

even though wealth cannot do everything

but without wealth it's a lot of pain.


Some people when they hear this,

it might make sense, without money,

how can you eat?


Without money, how can you pay for

your living expenses, for buying clothes

or building a Dharma Center?


Without funds,

how do you make offerings?

Right? It makes sense


but we need to see it from a point of wisdom,

we need to look at it wisely,

instead of being dragged by it,


being enslaved by the idea because

it will push us towards extremes

in hedonism and all that.


Everything is about money.

It has become extreme now.


So back to Filial Piety,

if you look at the West,

in regards to this idea of Xiao孝,


education is very common, very developed.

It's everywhere. Everyone got educated

but unfortunately,


these kinds of

human values, moral values

about love and respect towards parents,


about how you live with other people

peacefully, harmoniously, are neglected,

moral values are neglected.


They don’t have a concept of Filial Piety.

Most of them only retain the value of

taking care of only your children.


So only take care of your children,

children are the only ones who

need to be taken care of.


Not just the West anymore,

it's already commonplace

throughout the world.


The adults are

only focusing on the youngest,

neglecting their elders.


So as a child, as a son or daughter of the

parents, they focus their gaze towards

the next generation


and very few will look

back at their older generations.


So being an old man or old woman

in this era is very lonely,

the family tie is very loose.


In the Dharma Place I host,

there's a lot of elderly people.

I asked them: Why do you like to come here?


Usually they come by themself.

A lot of these elderly practitioners,

brothers and sisters, told me:


There is no one with me at home,

I feel lonely. When I come to the temple

I have people to talk with.


The temple is good

because I have a social environment,

at home everyone's busy with their own family


and with their work.

I can't find a chance to talk

with them often.


So this is a reality facing a lot of families

nowadays and thinking about ourselves

we'll be old one day.


One type of suffering is loneliness.

Loneliness itself is suffering.

Why do I teach this from this perspective?


I would like to give you an example

so that you have a concept of

why Filial Piety is important.


Then, I will explain how you do it,

how you fulfill Filial Piety

towards your elders.


For example, a new couple focuses on

setting funds away for their youngest

rather than the elders.


Say, a married couple who have children

or when they start having

their own family,


plan very well on giving their children funds,

saving funds for their children's education

and living expenses.


They take great care to make sure

their children are well

taken care of.


Some even do that before they have children

because they need to think about funding

for their children's education,


universities,

projects and all that.


Like my sister, I asked her:

Why do you work so hard making a living

and earning your money?


My sister would reply without thinking:

Without money how can I support my children?

So that's the framework.


The emphasis is heavily on children

and that's the part where

parents are great


because

they all think about

their own children at their own expense.


It's correct to have this planning,

but how many couples think

about their own parents,


say planning a retirement fund

or giving them funds so that

they are settled?


Some are

from a wealthy family

and their parents are very rich.


They don't even need to think about

helping save for emergencies,

in order to help their parents.


So they don't think like that.

There are good people that are not like this,

but very few.


As you can see from the news,

most of the cases are like this.


My parents are wealthy now,

I will wait out my parents so that I can

split the inheritance when they pass away.


So they are

looking at the money

rather than their own parents.


So their eyes are focused,

their whole mental energy is

focused on how to get the money


rather than

taking care of their parents.

Some are even worse,


they think about

how my siblings got more than I have,

that's not fair!


So you plan for your own children

but your children are looking

after your inheritance


rather than

taking care of you.

So we need to know about this.


It sounds like we're sharing the inheritance

from our parents, but most of the time,

the reality is they are fighting in court


or outside the court

over the inheritance.


Being a parent, sometimes it's a hard

thing because without money

you can’t support them


and with too much money

you have this problem,

everyone is fighting for inheritance.


So having a child

who is not filial is a lot of pain

waiting for you.


I myself have witnessed this,

a few years ago, this father

had passed away not long ago,


his children already argued for the money,

the inheritance of their parents,

of their father.


With this kind of attitude, how can

you let your parents pass in peace?

How can their parents pass in peace?


Some don't even wait until their parents

pass away, they already do that

while their parents are still alive.


Some are even worse,

as worse as they fought

so much over the inheritance,


they neglected the funds needed

to help their parents

in the hospital.


When their parents

got ill due to old age,

they even neglected that part.


So if we look at all these cases

that actually happen in society,

read the news, in each society,


not just one part,

you see that happening everywhere.


So I have a friend, when he was rich,

everyone liked to be his friend.


When his company went bankrupt,

everyone disappeared.

People nowadays.


That sort of human love

among each other,

the brotherhood, sisterhood is lost.


Everything is about money,

everything's about

taking advantage over others.


When they eat, they think about money,

when they sleep, they think about money,

when they wake up, they think about money.


Everything is about money, enslaved by money,

losing their humanity in the process

and becoming a goblin basically.


Sometimes among different religions. Some,

their parents are Buddhists and the

children are believing in a different faith.


So they, the children, are even threatening

their own parents, to believe,

to follow their faith.


Threaten them, say:

When you pass away,

I will not take care of your passing,


take care of everything that happens

during your passing including

the grave and all that.


The basic human respect isn’t there,

it should be there, human decency,

that’s what we call it.


Is it because of the era?

Is it very modern to be like that?

Where did we go wrong with human society?


So let's

take a daily scenario

rather than just inheritance.


When they look at good food,

good clothes, good gifts,

daily provisions,


how many people

are thinking about their parents first,

before they think about their children?


Mostly they are like: Oh, my son likes this,

my daughter likes this. How many people

think about their parents?


Hey, I think my Mom likes this,

my Dad likes this,

there are very few.


Back then, I used to bring a lot of young

people to visit another country

and I observed them.


Like other young couples,

they usually think about their babies,

their newborns or their own young children.


Very few of them think about their own parents,

but you can see the way it goes, when their

children grow up, the same thing happens.


This is the consequence of only thinking

downwards without thinking about

what comes before you.


Downwards means children,

upwards means parents.


So I like to continue to say:

Is it wrong to think about

your own children?


Being a parent, is it wrong for me

to think about my children, plan for

my children's well-being? No, it's not.


There's nothing wrong with that.

But respectful practitioners, we must know

that there's a saying in Chinese goes like this:


【A tree has its roots,

water has its sources】


Remember your roots,

where your roots are.

Who gave you a condition to have a life?


Who gave you a condition so that

you can live happily, be able to stand

in society and be able to make a living?


The things you wear, the things you eat,

the things you achieved,

who gave it to you?


Who helped you to kickstart that?

Your own parents, our own parents.

So that's why when I look at some families


who have their own

parents nagging them,

I feel very happy for them.


It's also a joy

in the world to be

nagged by your own parents.


I think this way, because in my case my Mom

passed away when I was studying and

my father passed away not long ago.


So I

became an orphan in a way.

I am an orphan now.


Appreciate the presence of your family,

especially when you're hungry,

someone's cooking for you.


When you're sick,

someone's taking care of you,

finding the best medicine for you.


When I'm sick,

who takes care of me?

No one, it's true.


Sometimes, I think, I live by myself,

when I pass away, no one will know.

That's why I cannot be sick (said jokingly).


Everyday,

the Dharma Protectors,

they call me and say:


Master, please make sure

your phone is on all the time, 24/7,

because if anything happens to you,


when we try to reach you,

we will know

if something's wrong.


If you turn off your phone,

you will not be able to communicate

with us.


It’s a blessing

to have your parents

with you, still with you.


This is why in Chinese ancient wisdom,

the sages kept saying you have to

think about your roots


to remind ourselves

to be a decent human,

to be a proper human.


Once you become a decent human,

only then are you able to actually

achieve happiness.


If you can't even be a good human,

decent human, let's not talk about

going to the Pure Land,


the Three Upper Realms, the Three Good Realms,

the human and heaven realms are

not achievable at all.


So being a decent human is the basic goal

because our parents gave birth to us,

nurtured us and educated us


and because of them we can grow up

as healthy adults, able to make a living

in society, achieve great things in society.


There's a saying as well in Chinese about our

parents' kindness towards us. It's boundless,

as boundless as the sky, as the universe.


Buddha said in the sutra of

Profound Kindness of Parents

and Difficulties in Repaying Them,


as it describes the parents’ kindness

as like the heavens and the sky,

there's no end to it.


No matter how much you do,

no matter what you do,

it's very hard to repay them in full.


In my case

I can't even repay them anymore

when I have the ability.


This is

to remind ourselves

of the importance of Filial Piety.


Also we need to learn to remember their

kindness because if we don't remember their

kindness towards us, how can we repay them?


Also in return, we do our duties to

take care of them and

make them happy.


So that's where the saying of

Remember Your Roots

came from.


However we need to see in modern times,

those who can be filial towards

their parents,


it's not like no one is good,

no one is filial,

no one loves their own parents or elders.


There are people who love and respect their parents,

but it's already considered a rare case.

This human demographic is rare.


Therefore, in Buddhism, when you practice,

it will point out among the

Four Great Bodhisattvas,


you all have to start from Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva.

The sutra of the Original Vows of Ksitigarbha

Bodhisattva talks about Filial Piety,


about roots and foundation of a human,

of a Buddhist, is Filial Piety and repaying

kindness because if you do that,


you are a good example to the world.

Everyone will feel the importance

of being good,


remembering the goodness,

kindness and repaying the kindness

of their dear parents.


If a person can't even remember and

repay the kindness of others, how can

this person stand their ground in society?


How can this person

survive in this society and

be able to develop in this society?


How can you

have a harmonious

and prosperous life?


This is why this sutra

the Original Vows of Ksitigarbha

Bodhisattva《地藏菩薩本願經》


becomes

a foundation of 49 years

of Shakyamuni Buddha’s Dharma.


It's the groundwork

for Buddhism to grow

and humanity to grow.


It's a necessity

for human beings to learn it.


That's why although

education is very good and

highly developed in the western nations,


this concept of repaying kindness,

Filial Piety is non-existent

or uncommon,


not just in the West, right now,

it's global, universal.


If this world keeps going on like that,

forgetting their roots,

forgetting being kind,


then being a human

in this kind of world is a torture.

It's a lot of suffering.


It will get

more and more torturous,

more and more insufferable.


We are not trying to be pessimistic

or depressing but this is the trend

we're going towards.


For example, a lot of people who are raised

or educated in the West or grown up

in their society are very curious


about the ritual

of Ancestor Remembrance

or what we call Ancestor Worship.


They feel it’s very weird

how some followed their own parents,

Asian parents back in the East,


do this worshiping

to their ancestors.


They feel it’s very weird

because ancestors passed away

centuries, millennia ago,


like thousands of years ago,

why do we remember these people

who we never met?


Why do we remember them at all?

It is because of that kind of view,

they treat it as superstitious.


Say, in Chinese, there's a very important day,

it's called Ching Ming清明 it's a day where

we visit the graves of our ancestors,


passed away family members.

Many people join the family

to sweep the graves.


This is a common thing we do,

we sweep the graves.


They feel that it is weird

and do not understand why we

still visit those who have passed away.


All of these traditions

now stop at the elderly people


because they still have the idea that

I still need to remember my grandparents,

my ancestors,


but nowadays

young people, you see,

have stopped this practice.


Some, even in the temple,

one of the lay Buddhists said to me:

Master,


when I pass away,

please spread my ashes

after my cremation into the sea.


I told him:

You cannot say that because

we never know who will go first.


The world is impermanent,

so you cannot say that.


So we don’t know why a lot of people

treat this kind of ancestor worship

as superstitious, impractical.


It’s normal. Why? No one's saying anything

about why. That's why no one's talking

about why you do that.


Why should we have to remember our ancestors,

worship our ancestors, like the act of

worshiping ancestors, what does it mean?


No one talks about that,

they just follow.

That's it.


In Indonesia, myself,

I promote Ancestor Remembrance

so that they are remembering,


know how to feel gratitude, experience the

gratitude, the feeling of gratitude towards

their parents and ancestors.


That's the point.

However, when Covid happened,

it cut short our activities.


I hope that in the future,

Sydney could do that as well,

celebrate Ancestor Remembrance.


If it's not promoted

that means no one is

explaining why we do that


and what's

the core value behind this ancestor

worshiping, the act of ancestor worshiping.


Then humanity is,

that's it,

it's gone. Humanity's gone.


That's why I felt like I was encouraging

the Sydney temple to celebrate the spirit of

remembrance towards our ancestors.


So that they cultivate a sense of gratefulness,

experience the gratefulness towards their

own parents and their own ancestors.


But in all honesty,

people are not aware of it.

That's why.


Buddha told us

that the Chinese word:

Filial Piety孝 was very well made.


This is one of the examples why Chinese

characters could be regarded

as the best, complete,


is the best

among many words made in the world.

Why is it best?


It is because it has been passed down

for five thousand years

without stopping.


It is because Chinese characters are made

of symbols. Every symbol has meanings,

a lot of meanings.


It can

go everywhere,

carrying wisdom inside.


We must understand these Chinese

characters were made according to the

Six Principles, according to the Six Writings.


Filial Piety is based

on one of the Six Writings,

one of them is called ideographs.


What are ideographs? Ideographs,

when you look at this word, immediately

you experience the meaning it carries.


So the word is supposed to

show you the meaning

straight away.


Like, patience忍, in Chinese, the word is a

combination of symbols, on top is a knife,

at the bottom is a heart.


That means even if the sword is on top of

your heart, you must persevere and

this is the feeling of patience.


You need to let go of

these agitations,

things that agitate you.


So in this society,

it's even more important

to be patient.


So back to the word Filial Piety, we already

mentioned the combination of two other

Chinese characters into this one Filial Piety,


it combines elder and the young.

When two become one,

then it is Filial Piety.


A lot of people, they say Generation Gap.

Oh I don't understand my parents,

okay boomer and all that.


Why does that happen?

We could understand it as

an absence of Filial Piety,


absence of heart to heart, absence of oneness

between the elders and the youngest

because we must understand one reality,


the younger generations will have their

own younger generations, the elders

have their own elder generations.


They are one thing.

The elder was once the younger.

The younger will become the elder.


So they are one.


In Buddhism

what do we learn about

Filial Piety?


In Mahayana Buddhism, Filial Piety,

the whole of the universe is one with ourselves,

like a body, not a family, a body


and this is very profound, straight to the core of it.

It is because when you expand Filial Piety,

love and respect, when you expand it,


you can go

all the way to the end of

the universe which is endless.


Other than Buddhism, Buddhist sutras,

there's no teachings of philosophies that

can expand this to this level,


that can’t

talk about Filial Piety

to this level, to this scale


so without Buddhism we couldn't fully grasp

the profoundness of Filial Piety beyond

just your parents


because it's about one with everyone else,

everything. How can the left hand

work against the right hand?


What I mean is that

they don't oppose each other.


So understanding this,

if you humiliate others,

you are humiliating yourself.


If you're

hurting or harming others,

it equals harming yourself.


If you understand why we need to be

compassionate and filial we will

understand why Buddha told us to be filial,


knowing this relationship we will understand

why Buddha tells us to start

from Filial Piety.


In Buddhism,

there is a sutra:

The Brahma Net Sutra. …


It's about precepts

or conduct of a Bodhisattva.


You have to expand your love and respect

towards your parents i.e Filial Piety

towards your parents,


beyond them, to all beings and this is the standard

set by Shakyamuni in this Brahma Net Sutra

towards all the Bodhisattvas.


To qualify as a Bodhisattva,

you need to have this

kind of heart,


this kind of filial heart towards

not just your parents

but towards everyone,


everyone's my parents,

everyone's my father,

everyone's my mother.


This is because

every single being,

not just sentient beings only,


but all beings,

are future Buddhas and

our parents in the past lives.


This is the foundation of Buddhist Filial Piety,

oneness with the whole universe, love all

because everyone is one with you.


This is a very deep, very,

very profound understanding.

So in daily life, how do we start with this?


How do we achieve

this perfection of Filial Piety?


So the Buddha has already given us

the foundation, the basis, the

theoretical foundation of Filial Piety.


If you can start from your parents, love and

respect your parents and expand this love

and respect towards all beings,


then you are a Bodhisattva.


This is why Amitabha Buddha is great

because he treats everyone like

he treats his own dear parents.


His way to show his love to all beings is

Pure Land. As a human, on our level,

how do we do that?


My Mom has passed away.

Some people might say:

I'm very old. I'm 80 already.


How do I

even be filial at this age,

right? What should I do?


There are three ways in total,

how we perform Filial Piety

in our daily life.


First towards the people, towards any encounter,

towards the material, our environment,

we must be grateful.


Like how we feel from our parents,

their love, from them, we use

that kind of love towards all beings.


It is because in this life,

it's very hard for us to

fully repay our parents’ love,


but the least we can do in our repayment

of this kindness is to expand this love

towards everything you interact with,


the people, the encounters,

the events and the actual

material world.


In Buddhism

we categorize this into four

targets of repayment of kindness.


First is parents,

then is the Triple Gem

which are teachers.


Starting from parents,

by loving and respecting them,

only then can we expand to our teachers.


When you love

your parents you will learn

how to respect the teachers.


Then towards the country that gives you

a safe environment and then

towards all beings


because

think about our position

in this world, are we alone?


Can you survive by only being with

yourself, by being alone? No.

This is why the Triple Gem is precious.


Dharma teachings

are precious

because they teach you about this.


They tell you to open up your mind

towards all beings, be grateful

towards them.


Then we move on to the country.

Without country stability,

how can we prosper,


how can we survive

and continue to

live happily?


And finally,

all beings who give all the services,

all the material resources,


without them,

how can we have an environment

like happiness right now?


When

someone scolds you,

you also need to be grateful.


When people criticize you,

we need to practice gratefulness

towards them.


When we are defamed, slandered or humiliated,

we all need to learn how to even be

grateful towards these people.


It is because no matter

what happens to us in the future,

no matter what happens,


no matter

who does what towards you

or no matter who you are in future,


doctors, teachers, leaders of your own field

or public servants or being parents,

no matter what you are doing,


we must always remember that we cannot

lose our moral compass and virtues,

that means we cannot lose our ground.


We cannot live without this bottom line

because if you always cross the bottom line,

which is against your conscience,


the consequences are not only impacting

your own family, you're impacting

your own next generations


and also your own past generations.

Say, if you always do things

against your conscience,


doing something that's harmful towards

others, how will society look at you,

how will society look at your family


and your own descendants?

This is such

a big transgression.


The point is no matter

how wealthy you will be in future

or how powerful you will be in future,


that's not the main point,

it's just the fruit.The root is

you must not lose your compass,


you must not lose

your virtues as a human.

How can we be a virtuous person?


Start from Buddhism,

start from listening to the Dharma,

listen often to them.


Some examples are like Teacher Chai talks

about starting with Di Zi Gui,

Ven. Chin Kung’s talks on 太上感應篇,


Cause and Effect and

The Sutra of Ten Virtuous Deeds,

all of these are good teachings.


The last one, on the path to being a Bodhisattva,

we need to guide our parents to liberate

them from the sufferings of life and death,


which is to help them

to give rise to the vow

to be reborn in the Pure Land.


Only when they are born in the Pure Land

will they no longer have to

suffer life and death.


When your parents

go to the Pure Land is

when your Filial Piety is completed.


Same for us, when we chant Amituofo,

even though I'm 90 years old,

but if I chant Amituofo earnestly,


when I manage to be born in the Pure Land,

when my time's up, I will not fall into

the Three Lower Realms.


This is the best thing we can do for our parents

because not only are you helping yourself

when you go to the Pure Land,


you're also able to know where

your parents are and help them

to increase their current standards.


In Taiwan, there was a lady, a lay Buddhist,

who accompanied her mother

when chanting Amituofo,


accompanied her Mom

to pray to Amitabha Buddha,

describing how good the Pure Land is


and how there's

no death, no aging, no illness.

How good that place is!


That's the only place

where we can be together forever!


This is how she encouraged

her Mom to chant Amituofo, to be

strong and to vow to be reborn there.


That's how

we fulfill our Filial Piety

towards our parents.


If we go to the Pure Land, if you go to

the Pure land, you are considered

as fully repaying your parents.


If you're able to reach the Pure Land

that means you are able to

repay your parents in full.


So how do we start this journey?

We start from being grateful, being

ready to repay their kindness at any time.


Then move on to increasing our virtues,

our moral conduct and then

in the end we go to the Pure Land.


So in summary,

what's the best way

to practice Filial Piety?


Chanting Amituofo earnestly.

This is the simple explanation on

how we fulfill our duty of Filial Piety.


If I want to go in detail, go in depth,

you cannot finish the concept of

Filial Piety in one day.


What we need to

know is how we practice it.

We start with our attitude, with our conduct.


Parents do not need you

to worship them every day,

like you worship Buddha.


They don't need you to do that. They just

want your attitude, a loving attitude,

good attitude, harmonious attitude.


That can establish a very beautiful,

peaceful relationship between

parents and children


because if we have a very bad temper,

very rebellious temper, that kind of attitude

towards them, it causes them to worry.


So to be filial,

to be loving and respectful

towards them,


we need to use the best condition,

best attitude we have

towards them,


offer them

our best attitude,

our most virtuous conduct.


Filial Piety can be considered

as hard but at the same time,

easy to be achieved,


because towards other people,

we are virtuous.

We can easily be patient and kind,


but towards our family, our parents,

we can't be as gentle and as loving as

we are towards others.


If we can't

do that towards our parents,

be kind to our parents,


then whatever kindness we have

towards others is false.

It's not real.


If our parents

have a very bad temper

or bad habits, we need to be patient,


we need to

use a very good

attitude to melt their shell.


So one day they will be touched

by your change, by your kindness,

by your gentleness.


So this is how we,

as children, as a son

or daughter treat our parents.


Only ask this question:

Is my attitude good

towards my parents?


First, are my words kind towards my parents?

This is something we need to know and

keep asking ourselves every day.


So that's it for today. Next Wednesday,

I would like to continue Understanding

Buddhism, other parts of it,


because we still need

about six or seven more courses

to complete these teachings.


If there's any misunderstanding from

the way I expressed these teachings,

please give me feedback,


because the point is

we know a lot of teachings,

we know a lot of what is right,


but when we

implement it we need to

practice how to implement it.


How we practice being grateful,

being aware of others' kindness and

repaying the kindness towards them.


That's the basics of being a decent human being.

So I wish you all a healthy life,

chant Amituofo earnestly


and that

everything accords to your wishes.

Thank you! Amituofo!


Let us dedicate our merits:

May the merits and virtues

accrued from this work,


repay the karmic

creditors of many lives,

repay the sentient beings of all time


May all the calamities

turn from big to small,

small to nothing.


Repay the Four Kindnesses Above,

relieve the suffering of those

in the Three Paths Below


May those

who see or hear of this

aspire to invoke the Bodhi heart


and cultivate the teachings

for the rest of this life,


then be born together

in the Land of Ultimate Bliss.

Namo Amituofo!